Love

Someone once said you trap yourself sometimes by thinking desire and need are love. He was right. Love is something far more precious but something far more fragile. Hold on to it too tightly and it will crumble in your fingers. Hold it too loosely and the wind might blow it away and shatter it on the cold ground. Listen to the voice in your heart but be absolutely sure the voice comes from your heart.

I really agree with this...

When you like someone, and you try to hold him too tightly, your overbearing presence crumbles whatever love there was...

If you like someone, and when you try to act nonchalant and just go "anything" to whatever he asks, he sees you as someone who doesn't really care, and that loses him for you...

The last line... Extremely hard to achieve...